Boss Management

Boss Management

बॉस को साधना ....

चमचागिरी मैनेजमेंट 

एक ऑफिस में राजन नाम का employee था जो कि दुनिया और ऑफिस के सारे काम छोड़ सकता था पर अपने बॉस और MD मि.चड्ढा को मक्खन लगाने का कोई मौका नहीं छोड़ता था 

वह बॉस के बताये सारे काम करता था , उनके निर्देशों का पालन करता था और ऑफिस के काम के अतिरिक्त , बॉस के लड़के की कॉलेज फीस जमा करना ,बेटी के लिए डांस कॉन्सट्यूम खरीदकर लाना , कार की सर्विस करवाना , बेटे का स्कूल प्रोजेक्ट पूरा करना ... बॉस की पत्नी के कहे हुए घर के सामान लाना....इत्यादि सभी कुछ राजन कर देता था .....पक्का चमचा .....

जाहिर बात है कि राजन , चड्ढा साहब का फेवरेट था और उसे सभी तरह के इंसेंटिव , इंक्रीमेंट और प्रमोशन मिलते रहते थे और इस वजह से ऑफिस के अन्य लोग बहुत दुखी रहते थे क्योंकि बॉस उनसे खुश नहीं थे ।

एक दिन , अचानक चड्ढा साहब की माता जी का देहांत हो गया ..ऑफिस का सारा स्टॉफ , MD साहब के घर की तरफ दौड़ पड़ा , सबने बहुत ही दुखी टाइप का चेहरा बना रखा था जैसे कि सबसे ज्यादा दुख उन्हें ही हो ....

आश्चर्य की बात ये थी कि MD साहब के बंगले पर , राजन कहीं भी नजर नहीं आ रहा था और हर कोई , राजन के ना होने पर हैरान था और अपने अपने कयास लगा रहा था .....

ऑफिस के बाकि स्टॉफ ने , एक वेहिकल का इंतजाम किया जिसमें पार्थिव शरीर को फूल मालाओं से लादकर शमशान स्थल ले जाया गया ...

पर वहाँ विद्युत शवदाह गृह में 16 bodies पहले से que में थी और प्रत्येक बॉडी को लगभग 3 घंटे का समय चाहिए था ...

 वहाँ दो शवदाह गृह थे पर सूर्य छिपने से पहले , नंबर आने का कोई चांस नहीं था ... 

 बॉस का चेहरा दुख और क्रोध से लाल हो गया था ..

एकाएक , जलाने के लिए रखी हुई दूसरी बॉडी खड़ी हो गई ....वहाँ उपस्थित सभी लोग डर के मारे चीख पड़े .... 

 पर , सब ये देखकर हैरान रह गये कि वो राजन था ....

उसने उत्साहित होकर MD साहब से कहा ...." सर , हमारा नंबर दूसरा है , मैं सुबह से मुर्दा बनकर वेट कर रहा हूँ और मैने जगह रोक रखी है क्योंकि मुझे पता था कि यहाँ बहुत भीड़ है

ऑफिस के सारे अन्य Employee , इस लेवल का कमिटमेंट और चमचागिरी देखकर हैरान रह गये ...

राजन ने ये मौका भी हाथ से नहीं जाने दिया ...

Employee Award  for Lifetime Achievement

Nocturia : Disorder in aged people

Nocturia : Disorder in aged people

Nocturia means that urination at night is a symptom of heart failure, not of the bladder.

Dr. Bansal, the famous doctor of Shivpuri, explains that nocturia is actually a symptom of blockage in the blood flow to the heart and brain. Adults and elderly people suffer the most because they have to get up frequently at night to urinate. Elders shy away from drinking water before going to bed at night for fear of disturbing sleep. They think that if you drink water, you will have to get up again and again to urinate. What they don't know is that not drinking water before bed or after urinating at night is an important cause of frequent early morning heart attacks or strokes in adults and elderly people. In fact, nocturia means frequent urination is not a problem of bladder dysfunction. This is due to decreased heart function in the elderly with age, as the heart is no longer able to suck blood from the lower part of the body.

In such a situation, during the day when we are in a standing position, the flow of blood is more downwards. If the heart is weak, the amount of blood in the heart becomes insufficient and the pressure on the lower part of the body increases. That is why adults and elderly people get swelling in the lower part of the body during the day. When they lie down at night the lower part of the body gets relief from the pressure and thus a lot of water gets stored in the tissues. This water comes back into the blood. If there is too much water, the kidneys have to work harder to separate the water and push it out of the bladder. This is one of the main causes of nocturia.

So it usually takes about three or four hours between when you lie down to sleep and the first time you go to the toilet. After that, when the amount of water in the blood starts increasing again, after three hours one has to go to the toilet again.

Now the question arises that why is it an important cause of brain stroke or heart attack?

The answer is that after urinating two or three times, there is very little water in the blood. The body's water is also reduced by breathing. This causes the blood to become thick and sticky and the heart rate slows down during sleep. Due to the thick blood and slow blood flow, the narrowed blood vessel gets blocked easily...

This is the reason why adults and elderly people are always found to have a heart attack or paralysis around 5-6 in the morning. In this condition they die in sleep itself.

The first thing to tell everyone is that nocturia is not a malfunction of the bladder, it is a problem of aging.

Another thing to tell everyone is that you should drink lukewarm water before going to bed, and again after getting up to urinate at night.

Do not be afraid of nocturia. Drink plenty of water, because not drinking water can kill you.

The third thing is that to increase the efficiency of the heart, you should do more exercise in a normal time. The human body is not a machine that will deteriorate if it is overused, on the contrary, the more it is used, the stronger it will be. Do not eat unhealthy food, especially high starch and fried foods.

I request you to share this article with your adult and elderly friends.

Very important for senior citizens.

Diseases due to stress, emotion management and lifestyle

 Diseases due to stress, emotion management and lifestyle

Surprising research...

1. Acidity not only caused by diet errors, but more dominated because of stress.

2. Hypertension not only caused by too much consumption of salty foods, but mainly because of errors in managing emotions.

3. Cholesterol is not only caused by fatty foods, but the excessive laziness or sedentary lifestyle is more responsible.

4. Asthma not only because of the disruption of oxygen supply to lungs, but often sad feelings make lungs unstable.

5. Diabetes not only because of too much consumption of glucose, but selfish & stubborn attitude disrupts the function of the pancreas.

6. Kidney stones : .Not only Calcium Oxalate deposits, but pent up emotions and hatred

7. Spondylitis : not only L4L5 or cervical disorder; but over burdened or too much worries about future

If we want to be healthy then first 

1) Fix your Mind

2) Do regular Exercises, 

2) Move around, 

3) Do Meditation

4) Laugh and make others laugh too.

5) Make Friends

These activities will help you to strengthen your soul, mind and body...

Be Healthy And Enjoy Your Life.

*VIBRATE HIGHER*

The Spiritually inclined will understand:

The covid virus has a vibration of 5.5hz and dies above 25.5hz.

For humans with a higher vibration, infection is a minor irritant that is soon eliminated!

The reasons for having low vibration could be:

Fear, Phobia, Suspicion

Anxiety, Stress, Tension.

Jealousy, Anger, Rage

Hate, Greed

Attachment or Pain

And so......we have to understand to vibrate higher, so that the lower frequency does not weaken our immune system.

The frequency of the earth today is 27.4hz. but there are places that vibrate very low like:

Hospitals

Assistance Centers.

Jails

Underground etc.

It is where the vibration drops to 20hz, or less.

For humans with low vibration, the virus becomes dangerous.

Pain 0.1 to 2hz.

Fear 0.2 to 2.2hz.

Irritation 0.9 to 6.8hz.

Noise 0.6 to 2.2hz.

Pride 0.8 hz.

Superiority 1.9 hz.

A higher vibration on the other hand is the outcome of the following behaviour :-

Generosity 95hz

Gratitude 150 hz

Compassion 150 hz or more.

The frequency of Love and compassion for all living beings is 150 Hz and more.

Unconditional and universal love from 205hz

So...Come on ...

Vibrate Higher!!!

What helps us vibrate high?

Loving, Smiling, Blessing, Thanking, Playing, Painting, Singing, Dancing, Yoga, Tai Chi, Meditating,  Walking in the Sun, Exercising, Enjoying nature, etc.

 Foods that the Earth gives us: seeds-grains-cereals-legumes-fruits and vegetables-

Drinking water: help us vibrate higher ..... !!!

The vibration of prayer alone goes from 120 to 350hz

So sing, laugh, love, meditate, play, give thanks and live ! 

Let's vibrate high ...!!!

This information is  compiled & edited by Naturotherapist Dr.  Harshal Sancheti, Nasik but 

the original source of this information is from the book Power Vs Force

Based on David R Hawkins' Doctoral Thesis. 

Honesty@₹7

Honesty@₹7

The Nobel Laureate Prof. C. V. Raman after retirement wished to open a Research Institute in Bangalore. 

So he gave an advertisement in the news papers for recruiting three physicists. 

Lots of eager Scientists applied thinking that even if they were not selected, they would at least get an opportunity to meet the Nobel Laureate. 

In the preliminary selection, five candidates were selected and the final interview was to be taken by Prof. C V Raman himself. 

Three were selected out of the five. 

Next day Prof. Raman was taking a walk and found one young man waiting to meet him. 

He realized that it was the same man who was not selected. 

The Prof.  asked him what was the problem and he replied that there was no problem at all, but after finishing the interview the office had paid him ₹7 extra than his claim and he wanted to return it. 

But because the accounts had closed, they could not take back the amount and asked him to enjoy. 

The man said that it is not right for him to accept the money which did not belong to him. 

Prof. C V Raman told him so you wish to return the ₹7 and he took the money from him. 

After going few  steps forward the Prof. asked the young man to meet him the next day at 10.30 am. The man was happy that he would get an opportunity to meet the great man again.

When he met the Prof.  next day the Nobel Laureate told the young man "son, you failed in the Physics test but you have passed the honesty test. 

So I have created another post for you". 

The young man was surprised and very happy to join.

Later on he too became a Nobel Laureate in 1983. This young man was *Prof. Subrahmanyan Chandrashekhar*(US Citizen of Indian Origin)

He has written a book on how the seven rupees changed his life.

This was how honesty made a great scientist. What is lacking in talent can most often be made up for, with hard work, guidance and help from others, but what is lacking in character and values, can't be made up for with anything ever. 

Which is why Einstein said - Dont try to be a man of success, but always be a man of value.

Significance of timely and appropriate action

Significance of timely and appropriate action 

Draupadi - A vengeful & strong willed wife.

Gambled, Disrobed & Humiliated, she remained bold & forthright even in her adversity.She was abused by dragging her hair through the court & teased by Dushashana.

Nothing much has changed since the 'Mahabharata' era in India.Conspiracy and Shaming is still a large part of 'Modern India'.

In Mahabharata, the great Bhishma did only one sin & his sin was that he didn't react & showed his anger/ resistance, when it was needed the most (during Draupadi Vastraharan)

In Ramayana, the vulture king Jatayu did show his anger/ resistance when it was needed the most (when Ravana kidnapped Sita mata)

Result:

Bhishma inspite of all his goodness is remembered for his single sin & he died on the arrow bed

Jatayu on the other hand is remembered for his Swami (Ram) Bhakti

What we should learn from this 

Anger / resistance should be shown at appropriate time.... Else you may have to repent forever

पौराणिक विज्ञान

पौराणिक विज्ञान

रात्रि के अंतिम प्रहर में एक बुझी हुई चिता की भस्म पर अघोरी ने जैसे ही आसन लगाया, एक प्रेत ने उसकी गर्दन जकड़ ली और बोला- मैं जीवन भर विज्ञान का छात्र रहा और जीवन के उत्तरार्ध में तुम्हारे पुराणों की विचित्र कथाएं पढ़कर भ्रमित होता रहा। यदि तुम मुझे पौराणिक कथाओं की सार्थकता नहीं समझा सके तो मैं तुम्हे भी इसी भस्म में मिला दूंगा।

अघोरी बोला- एक कथा सुनो, रैवतक राजा की पुत्री का नाम रेवती था। वह सामान्य कद के पुरुषों से बहुत लंबी थी, राजा उसके विवाह योग्य वर खोजकर थक गये और चिंतित रहने लगे। थक-हारकर वो योगबल के द्वारा पुत्री को लेकर ब्रह्मलोक गए। राजा जब वहां पहुंचे तब गन्धर्वों का गायन समारोह चल रहा था, राजा ने गायन समाप्त होने की प्रतीक्षा की।
गायन समाप्ति के उपरांत ब्रह्मदेव ने राजा को देखा और पूछा- कहो, कैसे आना हुआ?

राजा ने कहा- मेरी पुत्री के लिए किसी वर को आपने बनाया अथवा नहीं?
ब्रह्मा जोर से हंसे और बोले- जब तुम आये तबतक तो नहीं, पर जिस कालावधि में तुमने यहाँ गन्धर्वगान सुना उतनी ही अवधि में पृथ्वी पर २७ चतुर्युग बीत चुके हैं और २८ वां द्वापर समाप्त होने वाला है, अब तुम वहां जाओ और कृष्ण के बड़े भाई बलराम से इसका विवाह कर दो, अच्छा हुआ की तुम रेवती को अपने साथ लाए जिससे इसकी आयु नहीं बढ़ी।

इस कथा का वैज्ञानिक संदर्भ समझो- आर्थर सी क्लार्क ने आइंस्टीन की थ्योरी ऑफ़ रिलेटिविटी की व्याख्या में एक पुस्तक लिखी है- मैन एंड स्पेस, उसमे गणना है की यदि 10 वर्ष का बालक यदि प्रकाश की गति वाले यान में बैठकर एंड्रोमेडा गैलेक्सी का एक चक्कर लगाये तो वापस आनेपर उसकी आयु ६६ वर्ष की होगी पर धरती पर 40 लाख वर्ष बीत चुके होंगे। यह आइंस्टीन की time dilation theory ही तो है जिसके लिए जॉर्ज गैमो ने एक मजाकिया कविता लिखी थी-

There was a young girl named Miss Bright,
Who could travel much faster than light
She departed one day in an Einstein way
And came back previous night

प्रेत यह सुनकर चकित था, बोला- यह कथा नहीं है, यह तो पौराणिक विज्ञान है, हमारी सभ्यता इतनी अद्भुत रही है, अविश्वसनीय है। तभी तो आइंस्टीन पुराणों को अपनी प्रेरणा कहते थे।

अघोरी मुस्कुराता रहा और प्रेत वायु में विलीन हो गया।

हम विश्व की सबसे उन्नत संस्कृति हैं यह विश्वास मत खोना।
ओउम् नमो: शिवाय।

E... life

The ...E... life  !!!!!

In this world of E-mails, E-ticket, E-paper, E-recharge, E-transfer and the latest E-Governance..E- commerce.

Never Forget "E-shwar ( God )"

who makes e-verything e-asy for e-veryone e-veryday.

"E" is the most Eminent letter of the English alphabet.

Men or Women don't exist without "E".

House or Home can't be made without "E".

Bread or Butter can't be found without "E".

"E" is the beginning of "existence" and the end of "trouble."

It's not at all in 'war'
but twice in 'peace'.

It's once in 'hell' but twice in 'heaven'.

"E" represented in 'Emotions'
Hence,  all emotional relations like Father, Mother, Brother, Sister,wife & friends have 'e' in them.

"E" also represents 'Effort' & 'Energy'
Hence to be 'Better' from good  two "e"s are added in better.

Without "e", we would have no love, life, wife, friends or hope

& 'see', 'hear', 'smell', or 'taste' as 'eye' 'ear', 'nose' & 'tongue' are incomplete without "e".

Finally no 'Life' & 'Death' without "e".

Hence GO with "E"
but without E-GO.

Tips to marry rich guys

Tips to marry rich guys 

Most of the girls want to marry rich guys. It is very unfortunate how men are reduced to price tags. Similarly, a girl called Pooja Chohan asked Mukesh Ambani on a forum for tips to marry rich guys like him. She was asking direct questions like where do rich guys hangout and how can she impress them. Mukesh Ambani’s reply to this rich husband seeking girl on a forum is totally to the point.
Salute to Mukesh Ambani for being so brutally honest to the girl and trying to make her see reality.

Here is what the girl wrote:

I’m going to be honest to what I’m going to say here.

I’m 25 this year. I’m very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with 100 crore annual salary or above.

You might say that I’m greedy, but an annual salary 2 crore is considered only as middle class now days..

My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of 100 crore annual salary? Are you all married?

I wanted to ask: what should I do to marry rich persons like you?

Among those I’ve dated, the richest is 50 crore annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit.

If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York City Garden(?), 50 crore annual income is not enough.

I’m here humbly to ask a few questions:

1) Where do most rich bachelors hang out? (Please list down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)

2) Which age group should I target?

3) Why most wives of the riches are only average-looking? I’ve met a few girls who don’t have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys.

4) How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can only be your girlfriend? (my target now is to get married)

Ms. Pooja I Chohan.

 

This is the amazing reply Mukesh Ambani gave to the girl:

 

Dear Ms. Pooja,

I ( Mukesh Ambani, Reliance Group ) have read your post with great interest.

Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours. Please allow me to analyse your situation as a professional investor.

My annual income is more than 100 crore, which meets your requirement, so I hope everyone believes that I’m not wasting time here.

From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to marry you. The answer is very simple, so let me explain.

Put the details aside, what you’re trying to do is an exchange of “beauty” and “money”: Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square.

However, there’s a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can’t be prettier year after year.

Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I ( Mukesh Ambani ) am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset. It’s not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worse 10 years later.

By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a “trading position”.

If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term – same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or “leased”.

Anyone with over 100 crore annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with 100 crore annual income. This has better chance than finding a rich fool.

Hope this reply helps.

(Signed)

Mukesh Ambani

Illeterate dunhill

Illiterate Dunhill 

This is absolutely mind blowing

A church in London had rules that it would not employ anyone, without formal high school education. The old pastor was benign and not a stickler of rules.  He allowed Alfred (who lacked formal education) as the caretaker to clean the pews, sweep the floor and keep the podium spick and span.

Alfred had put off taking his high school examination till it became too late.

Once the old pastor retired, he was replaced by a younger person who followed the rule book.  As he came to know about the caretaker’s education, he issued a notice to him that either he should get a high school certificate in six months or he should resign.

Alfred knew that you could not teach an old dog new tricks and that he had no option but to resign.

He started out his afternoon stroll in deep thought and got into Bond Street.  Suddenly, he felt an urge to smoke. He could not find a single tobacco shop on the entire street.

He walked further down into a side street where he could purchase his cigarette.  He came back to the busy Bond Street. He realized that a small cigarette shop in the street would be a sound business proposition.

He resigned at the church and started a small shop on Bond Street which prospered way beyond his expectations.  He noticed that many of his customers were coming from the other side of the street.  He started another shop on that side of Bond Street.
The two shops multiplied to four and then sixteen In three years, Alfred Dunhill Co. was soon a leading tobacconist in England.

He started machine-rolling cigarettes and introduced his own brand of Dunhill cigarettes. In five years, he was a millionaire many times over.

To ensure a consistent supply of tobacco, he entered into an annual purchase agreement with a couple of American tobacco farmers and went across to America to meet them.

It was a big boost for the American tobacco farmers and the contract signing ceremony was converted into a media circus, with a Senator and Governor participating.

When the contracts were actually signed, Dunhill affixed his thumb impression because he had not learnt to sign his name.

The Governor was impressed and said, “Well Sir! This is awesome.  Even without a formal education you have achieved so much. Just imagine what would you have done if you had a formal education!”

Dunhill’s characteristic, often repeated reply, was,

“If I knew how to read and write, I would still be sweeping the church!”

Believe it or not

FUN FACTS

• A pumping human heart can squirt blood 30ft.

• The "richest" country in the world (the US) would lose that place if you excluded just the top 5% of wealth holders.

• YouTube was originally a video dating site called "Tune In Hook Up."

• Steve Jobs never wrote a single line of programming code.

• Einstein's brain was 15% wider than average.

• Potato skins are packed with 60 phyto-chemicals, many of these are flavonoids which help lower bad cholesterol and keep arteries clear.

• File-sharing is an official religion in Sweden.

• 1 million earths could fit into the sun.

• Cockroaches are one of the most fart-producing creatures on the planet.

• Modern clocks are actually more consistent than Earth's orbit around the Sun, which can vary by several milliseconds a year.

• False Awakening is when you're dreaming that you've woken up, but you are actually still in deep sleep.

• Rubbing a cucumber slice on your bathroom mirror will keep it from fogging up.

• The Pineberry is a white strawberry that tastes like a pineapple.

• The average person walks the equivalent of five times around the world throughout their lifetime.

• An estimated 50-80% of all life on Earth is found in the ocean.

• Approximately 1% of the world's population is drunk at any given moment.

• In 2012, Singapore, a country of over 5 million people, experienced 80 days in which no robberies or thefts were reported.

• Blue whales are so big, that a human can swim through their largest veins and arteries.

Jag Mohan Nath, the IAF veteran who holds the rare distinction of being awarded two Maha Vir Chakras.

Here’s the little-known story of Jag Mohan Nath, the IAF veteran who holds the rare distinction of being awarded two Maha Vir Chakras.

Nearly fifty-three years ago, when he leaped into his bomber jet and flew into Pakistan on a top-secret mission, then Squadron Leader Jag Mohan Nath already had a Maha Vir Chakra awarded to him.Three years later, in September 1965, the gutsy IAF pilot was awarded another Maha Vir Chakra!

Jam Mohan Nath was born in Laya village in Punjab province of British India (now in Pakistan) and relocated to India after Partition. His family members were all doctors, but the young lad had a passion for planes from an early age. Growing up in his village, he would spend hours watching the planes high in the sky.

Nath got an opportunity to follow this passion in 1948 when he joined the Air Force Administrative College in Coimbatore for his initial training in the IAF. Dedicated and hard-working, he was soon selected for daring maneuvers and covert operations in hostile territory.

Beginning on began on October 20, 1962, the conflict saw a month-long standoff between approximately 10,000-20,000 Indian troops and 80,000 Chinese troops. Fought mainly by the Indian Army, India’s air power was sparingly used to support the ground troops as the government was wary of Chinese retaliation against Indian cities, especially Calcutta.

It was during the beginning of this stand-off that Nath was given the risky task of covertly assessing the Chinese build-up in the Aksai Chin area and Tibet. He took to skies in his Canberra, a twin-engine jet bomber that had been fitted with cameras.

During his reconnaissance missions, Nath was often detected and fired at by the Chinese despite flying high to avoid radar detection.

Undaunted, the courageous pilot continued to fly into hostile territory and return with invaluable strategic inputs on the ground situation and enemy troop activities in Aksai Chin and Tibet, both before and during the Indo-China conflict.

It was this outstanding effort of flying in hazardous conditions that earned Nath his first Maha Vir Chakra. Three years later, he repeated the feat in 1965 after war erupted between India and Pakistan.

Back then, the Himalayan battlefield had no radar. As such, the Pakistan Air Force (PAF) had set up observation posts pitched atop ridges of the mountainous terrain. Pakistani Sabres would also patrol the skies to lookout for Indian intrusion.

During his recon sorties in enemy territory, Nath would fly his English Electra Canberra at extremely low heights, almost skimming the trees so that Pakistani radar could not detect his aircraft. Then, when he caught sight of something that needed to be captured on camera, he would climb (in broad daylight) to 12,000 feet to get clear pictures of well-defended airfields and installations.

This five-minute period of exposure was the riskiest part of the mission. Easily visible to Pakistani outposts and aircraft, Nath would often have to dodge and duck between the peaks at dizzying speeds to avoid being shot down by the furious PAF Sabres in hot pursuit.

Unsurprisingly, he had several close calls, such as the time when he found his fuel gauge running empty just as blips on his instrument panel informed him about four enemy aircrafts on his tail. Yet, undeterred by the danger such incidents posed to his life, Nath soldiered on, continuing to fly into an extremely hostile enemy territory to complete the vital task he had been given.

In fact, Nath once evaded Pakistani fighters and re-entered Indian skies in such a way that he was almost shot down by IAF MiGs who mistook him for the enemy!

The 30-odd recon sorties conducted by Nath yielded a treasure trove of strategic pictures and information. It was this crucial intelligence that helped IAF aircrafts destroy a powerful radar in Badin (near Karachi), and that the Indian army almost reached Lahore.

Interestingly, Nath’s dangerous missions were so secret that only one other person had the authorization to known about them: the then Chief of IAF, Air Chief Marshal Arjan Singh. Singh had also given Nath the codename of ‘Professor’ to maintain these high levels of secrecy.

In 1969, Nath retired from the Indian Air Force and joined Air India as a commercial pilot. He remains the only living IAF veteran to be conferred the Maha Vir Chakra twice, a distinction that is as rare as it gets.

Management lesson

Mind blowing math. 

A father left 17 Camels as an Asset for his Three Sons.

When the Father passed away, his sons opened up the will.

The Will of the Father stated that the Eldest son should get Half of 17 Camels,

The Middle Son should be given 1/3rd of 17 Camels,

Youngest Son should be given 1/9th of the 17 Camels,

As it is not possible to divide 17 into half or 17 by 3 or 17 by 9, the sons started to fight with each other.

So, they decided to go to a wise man.

The wise man listened patiently about the Will. The wise man, after giving this thought, brought one camel of his own & added the same to 17. That increased the total to 18 camels.

Now, he started reading the deceased father’s will.

Half of 18 = 9.
So he gave 9 camels
to the eldest son.

1/3rd of 18 = 6.
So he gave 6 camels
to the middle son.

1/9th of 18 = 2.
So he gave 2 camels
to the youngest son.

Now add this up:
9 + 6 + 2 = 17 &
This leaves 1 camel,
which the wise man took back.

MORAL: The attitude of negotiation & problem solving is to find the 18th camel i.e. the common ground. Once a person is able to find the common ground, the issue is resolved. It is difficult at times.

However, to reach a solution, the first step is to believe that there is a solution. If we think that there is no solution, we won’t be able to reach any!

If you liked this story,  please share with all. You might spark a thought, inspire & possibly change a life forever!

A very interesting management lesson.

Luck

Why some people have all the Luck?

By Professor Richard Wiseman, University of Hertfordshire.

Why do some people get all the luck while others never get the breaks they deserve?

A psychologist says he has discovered the answer.

Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why some people are always in the right place at the right time, while others consistently experience ill fortune. I placed advertisements in national newspapers asking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me.

Hundreds of extraordinary men and women volunteered for my research and over the years, I have interviewed them, monitored their lives, and had them take part in experiments.
I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether this was due to differences in their ability to spot such opportunities. I gave both lucky and unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them to look through it and tell me how many photographs were inside. I had secretly placed a large message halfway through the newspaper saying: "Tell the experimenter you have seen this and win $50." This message took up half of the page and was written in type that was more than two inches high. It was staring everyone straight in the face, but the unlucky people tended to miss it and the lucky people tended to spot it.

Unlucky people are generally more tense than lucky people, and this anxiety disrupts their ability to notice the unexpected.
As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused on looking for something else. They go to parties intent on finding their perfect partner and miss opportunities to make good friends.

They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisements and miss other types of jobs.
Lucky people are more relaxed and open, and therefore see what is there rather than just what they are looking for. My research eventually revealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four principles. They are skilled at creating and noticing chance opportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition, create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.

Here are Professor Wiseman's four top tips for becoming lucky:
1) Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right
2) Be open to new experiences and breaking your normal routine
3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well
4) Visualize yourself being lucky before an important meeting or a telephone call.

Have a Lucky day and work for it...

"The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems, but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect."

"There is a great difference between "worry" and "concern."
A worried person only sees the problem and a concerned person solves the problem!

May Luck be on your side!!!

Parents don't overprotect your child

A man, an avid Gardener saw a small Butterfly laying few eggs in one of the pots in his garden.

Since that day he looked at the egg with ever growing curiosity and eagerness.

The egg started to move and shake a little.

He was excited to see a new life coming up right in front of his eyes.

He spent hours watching the egg now.

The egg started to expand and develop cracks.

A tiny head and antennae started to come out ever so slowly.

The man's excitement knew no bounds.

He got his magnifying glasses and sat to watch the life and body of a pupa coming out.

He saw the struggle of the tender pupa and couldn't resist his urge to "HELP".

He went and got a tender forceps to help the egg break, a nip here, a nip there to help the struggling life and the pupa was out.

The man was ecstatic!

He waited now each day for the pupa to grow and fly like a beautiful butterfly, but alas that never happened.

The larvae pupa had a oversized head and kept crawling along in the pot for the full 4 weeks and died!

Depressed the man went to his botanist friend and asked the reason.

His friend told him the struggle to break out of the egg helps the larvae to send blood to its wings and the head push helps the head to remain small so that the tender wings can support it thru its 4 week life cycle.

In his eagerness to help, the man destroyed a beautiful life!

Struggles help all of us, that's why a bit of effort goes a long way to develop our strength to face life's difficulties!

As parents, we sometimes go too far trying to help and protect our kids from life's harsh realities and disappointments.

We don't want our kids to struggle like we did.

Harvard psychiatrist Dr. Dan Kindlon says that over-protected children are more likely to struggle in relationships and
with challenges.

We're sending our kids the message that they're not capable of helping themselves.

To quote clinical psychologist,
Dr. Wendy 's Moral:

"It  is  Our Job  to  prepare  Our  Children  for  the  Road & Not  prepare  the  Road for  Our Children"

Ducks Quack, Eagles Soar

Ducks Quack, Eagles Soar

I was waiting in line for a ride at the airport in Dubai. When a cab pulled up, the first thing I noticed was that the taxi was polished to a bright shine. Smartly dressed in a white shirt, black tie, and freshly pressed black slacks, the cab driver jumped out and rounded the car to open the back passenger door for me.

He handed me a laminated card and said: 'I'm Abdul, your driver. While I'm loading your bags in the trunk I'd like you to read my mission statement.'

Taken aback, I read the card. It said: Abdul's Mission Statement:
To get my customers to their destination in the quickest, safest and cheapest way possible in a friendly environment.

This blew me away. Especially when I noticed that the inside of the cab matched the outside. Spotlessly clean!

As he slid behind the wheel, Abdul said, 'Would you like a cup of coffee? I have a thermos of regular and one of decaf.'

I said jokingly, 'No, I'd prefer a soft drink.'

Abdul smiled and said, 'No problem. I have a cooler up front with regular and Diet Coke, lassi, water and orange juice.'

Almost stuttering, I said, 'I'll take a Lassi.'

Handing me my drink, Abdul said, 'If you'd like something to read, I have The NST , Star and Sun Today.'

As they were pulling away, Abdul handed me another laminated card, 'These are the stations I get and the music they play, if you'd like to listen to the radio.'

And as if that weren't enough, Abdul told me that he had the air conditioning on and asked if the temperature was comfortable for me.

Then he advised me of the best route to my destination for that time of day. He also let me know that he'd be happy to chat and tell me about some of the sights or, if I preferred, to leave me with my own thoughts.

'Tell me, Abdul ,' I was amazed and asked him, 'have you always served customers like this?'

Abdul smiled into the rear view mirror. "No, not always. In fact, it's only been in the last two years. My first five years driving, I spent most of my time complaining like all the rest of the cabbies do. Then I heard about POWER OF CHOICE one day."

Power of choice is that you can be a duck or an eagle.

'If you get up in the morning expecting to have a bad day, you'll rarely disappoint yourself. Stop complaining!'

'Don't be a duck. Be an eagle. Ducks quack and complain. Eagles soar above the crowd.'

'That hit me. really hard' said Abdul.

'It is about me. I was always quacking and complaining, so I decided to change my attitude and become an eagle. I looked around at the other cabs and their drivers. The cabs were dirty, the drivers were unfriendly, and the customers were unhappy. So I decided to make some changes, slowly ... a few at a time. When my customers responded well, I did more.'

'I take it that it has paid off for you,' I said.

'It sure has,' Abdul replied. 'My first year as an eagle, I doubled my income from the previous year. This year I'll probably quadruple it. My customers call me for appointments on my cell phone or leave a message on it.'

Abdul made a different choice. He decided to stop quacking like a duck and start soaring like an eagle.

Start becoming an eagle today ... one small step every week..next week... And next...And....

A great Thought..

"You don't die if you fall in water, you die only if you don't swim.

Thats the Real Meaning of Life.

One One.......

One song can spark a moment,
One flower can wake the dream.
One tree can start a forest,
One bird can herald spring.

One smile begins a friendship,
One handclasp lifts a soul.
One star can guide a ship at sea,
One word can frame the goal.

One vote can change a nation,
One sunbeam lights a room.
One candle wipes out darkness,
One laugh will conquer gloom.

One step must start each journey,
One word must start each prayer.
One hope will raise our spirits,
One touch can show you care.

One voice can speak with wisdom,
One heart can know what's true.
One life can make the difference,
You see it's up to YOU..

Very inspiring message

‼ In 1881, a professor asked his student whether it was God who created everything that exists in the universe?

Student replied: Yes
He again asked:
What about evil?
Has God created evil also?

The student got silent...
Then the student requested that may he ask a question from him?

Professor allowed him to do so.

Student asked: 

Does cold exist?

Professor said: Yes! Don't you feel the cold dear?

Student said:  I'm sorry but you are wrong sir. 
Cold is a complete absence of heat...
There is no cold, it is only an absence of heat.

Student asked again:
Does darkness exist?

Professor Said:  Yes!

Student replied: you are again wrong sir. There is no such thing like darkness. It’s actually the absence of light.

Sir! We always study light & heat, but not cold & darkness.

Similarly, the evil does not exist. Actually it is the absence of Love, Faith & True belief in God.

The name of the student was...
Vivekananda...!!!

Can't stop myself to share this with all....

Very inspiring message‼

FANTASTIC MESSAGE

*FANTASTIC MSG..!*
How Can You "SM_LE"
Without *"I"* ?
How Can You Be "F_NE"
Without *"I"* ?
How Can You "W_SH"
Without *"I"* ?
How Can You Be "N_CE"
Without *"I"* ?
How Can You Be "FR_END"
Without *"I"* ?
*"I"* Am Very Important!
But This *"I"* Can Never Achieve "S_CCESS" nor Can "LA_GH" Without all of *"U"* ......
And
That Makes *"U"* More Important Than *"I"*..

TEN ADVICES from a Supreme Court JUDGE

TEN ADVICES  from a Supreme Court JUDGE who handled Family Dispute Courts:

1.Don't encourage your son and his wife to stay under same roof with you. Best to suggest them to move out, even to the extent of renting a house.  It's their problem to find a separate home.
More the distance between you and your children's families, the better is the relationship with your in laws.

2.Treat your son's wife as his wife, not as your own daughter, maybe just treat her as a friend. Your son would always be your Junior  but, if you think that his wife is of the same rank and if you ever scolded her, she would  remember it for life.
In real life, only her own mother and not u will be viewed as a person qualified to scold or correct her.

3.Whatever habits or characters your son's wife has is not your problem at all, it is your  son's problem. It isn't  your problem as he is an adult already.

4.Even when living together, make each others businesses clear, don't do their laundry, don't cook for them and don't baby sit their children. Unless, of course, there is a special request by your son's wife and you feel that you're capable and don't expect anything in return.
Most importantly, you shouldn't worry about your son's family problems. Let them settle themselves

5.Pretend to be blind and deaf when your son and his wife are quarrelling.  It's normal that the young couple do not like their parents to be involved in the dispute between husband and wife.

6.Your grandchildren totally belong to your son and his wife. However they want to raise their children,  it is up to them.  The credit or blame would be on them.

7.Your son's wife need not necessarily  respect and serve you. It is the son's duty.  You should have taught your son to be a better person so that you and your son's wife relationship could be better.

8.Do more planning for your own retirement, don't rely on your children to take care of  your retirement. You had already walked through most of your journey in life, there are still a lot of new things to learn through out the journey.

9.It is your own interest that you enjoy your retirement years.  Better if you could utilise & enjoy everything that you had saved before you die.  Don't let your wealth become worthless to you.

10.Grandchildren don't belong to your family, they're their parents precious gift.

*PLEASE NOTE*
_This message is not only for you. Please share it with your friends,  parents, in-laws, uncles, aunties, husband or wife to find peace & progress in life as it is *based on life long experience* of a *judge* who handled *family dispute courts*.

Beauty

A very pretty woman entered into an aircraft and started looking for her seat. She noticed that her seat is next to a person with both hands missing. She hesitated to sit next to him.
That ‘pretty’ woman told the airhostess that she can’t sit in her assigned seat and travel comfortably sitting next to that no-arms person; and asked the airhostess to change her seat. The airhostess enquired “Ma’am may I know the reason”?
The ‘pretty’ lady replied: “I don’t like such people. I don’t like sitting next to such people and travel”. The airhostess was shocked to hear this from this lady who in appearance looked like a well-mannered and polite person. The ‘pretty’ lady again told the airhostess that she did not want that seat and demanded the airhostess to find her a different seat.
The airhostess asked the lady to be patient for a little bit and said she will try her best to accommodate her request; and looked around for an empty seat. She couldn’t find any.
The airhostess returned to the lady and said, “Madam! All the seats in this economy class are full. But then for the comfort of our travelers it is our policy to satisfy them to our utmost. So, I will talk to the captain and kindly be patient a bit longer”. Saying so, she went to see the captain.
After some time she returned and told the lady, “Madam! We are very sorry for the discomfort to you. In this entire aircraft, there is only one seat vacant and that is in First class. I talked to our team and we took an extraordinary decision. To send a traveler from economy class to First class is happening for the first time in our company history……”.
The ‘pretty’ lady was becoming so ecstatic and even before uttering a word…. The airhostess turned to the person with no arms and said, “Sir, May you please move to the First class? We want to eliminate the tragedy of you traveling next to a manner-less person.”  Hearing this every one clapped immensely and welcomed the decision. The ‘pretty’ lady was tremendously felt ashamed.
Then the person stood up and said, “I am a ex-serviceman and I lost my both arms in a bomb blast in Kashmir border during an operation. At first, when I heard the lady talk, I thought: did I put my life at risk for these kind of people? But after looking at their actions and your all response, I feel proud that I lost my both arms for my country.” And saying so, he walked into the First class.
The ‘pretty’ lady drowned into the seats fully ashamed.

Beauty is not in what is seen in face and body. Beauty in a good person is in his/her lofty thoughts.